Updated: Feb 27, 2022
Nobody should ever have any self-loathing. They should love themselves. You are your own worst critique. If you truly know you've been doing your best, then tell that self-loathing to go suck it. If there are things that folks need to change about themselves then own it, change it, and be grateful that you made the choice to change it. Knowing that alone should make you feel good about yourself. You are not alone you are just one of the many brave ones that took the time to put your ego down and realized that about yourself. Not many people can do that, not many people can admit they have flaws. I mean we all can do that, but it is difficult at times. It's like a kick in the gut "Oh my gosh that's not a good quality to have." It's a hard task to do, then making steps to change that about themselves. I've done it and it hurts the ego for sure but accepting that those were qualities that were needed to be changed is what drove me to do change, because all I want to be is a better person than I was yesterday.